Bluepill2, my husband and I have no children between the two of us but he has three from his previous marriage gone bad. They listened to their mother who got paid off well. He lost a pile of money trying to fight to seeing them. All three got a good education, house paid for, food on the table and good clothes to wear thanks to dads monthly child support cheques which kept the mother from getting off her lazy butt to finding work. In the end what he thought was a lost battle has come to its end. The oldest who is in his mid thirties recently came over and said hi to him. When I met him, hubby asked if I knew this man and I said no. I hadn't seen him since his teens. We met his wife and three adopted children. He had a falling out with his mother so now he's wanting to meet his dad last year. They are not close and may never be close but from time to time they keep in contact since he lives in Europe and us in Ontario.
He tried to talk to his daughter who happens to live fifteen minutes away but wants nothing to do with him. And the other son is still on a journey who hates the world and carries a chip onn his shoulders. He has nothing to do with anyone on this side of the family. It's really sad when they were younger if dad didn't give them money then he was a jerk so hubby stopped giving them money and they stopped coming around. The mother had filled their heads with garbage. But like I said these kids who are now in their thirties have their own lives and are busy. They were never jws but I'm sure the religion makes dam sure your kids are kept super busy. Don't give up. You never know what will happen to them when they are older. Their mother is the one who will have to live with the consequences of her horrible actions like keeping them away from you. Religion or no religion this happens alot. There are organisations that will support you and other fathers that are in the same shoes as you. Give them a try or just wait it out. One day your daughter might find out TTATT and she will need you. Don't give up and don't let her down when that day arrives.
God bless